What can we learn from this time of year?
This in particular is a special month having in it a day dedicated to the Saint Valentine. Celebrating love and affection between lovers on Feb. 14th. It is an opportunity for all of us, whether you are in a relationship witha lover or not. At all times, you are in relationship with yourself.
So – if you think even for one minute.. bah humbug on Valentines day then remember in order to truly love and be loved you must start with yourself. If you are in a romantic relationship, this day and even this month, is a great time to remember the feelings of when you first met and rekindle that magic. And lastly, if you want to attract in a new love then the same applies to you – know it, see it and most importantly feel it as if that lover is with you now. When you do this, you raise your vibration to draw your lover into your life. Hence, you must come from a place of knowing and believing rather than a place of lack.. if you feel lack then you will recieve lack. You get exactly what you put out there.
LOVE is in the air – breath it into your heart and once your heart is full, share it! All the other months are dedicated to something else, but this particualar holiday is actaully one of the most important of all. It is the root of all other things “LOVE”. Love is all there is, love is where joy grows, love is what makes meaning in this world.
After the rapid rise in the real estate market and the hugely flowing economy many people lost site of what was truly important. Some people got lost in their things believing that those things defined who they were. As if the more toys they had the more accomplished they were and acceptable in society. And, yes stuff, dollar signs can be a quantifiable measure to ones success and even a wonderful thing because money can create a certain level of freedom, but for many people during this time.. the money actually became a trap. Greed over came many and the cycle or the rat race ride could not be disembarked. People had created these physical worlds for themselves that actually trapped them and had them running and running and running to keep up with the Jones’. And keeping them from themselves, walking around totally disconnected from thier soul.
The economy and the downturn has slowed people down. Success is to be had, but maybe for some they are being blessed with the opportunity to redefine what success is and at the end of the day they are beginning to realize that love is all there is, and they are truly awakening. Having to dig deep within ourselves we begin knowing that love is in fact the root of Joy, the root of happiness, and the root of success. In order to be truly successful, we must first be happy – internally happy .. creating our success. No matter what you do, when you know it is your divine purpose on the planet you will feel love and joy deep from within. When you choose to share with the world your talents and gifts, you will be blessed with more. That increase may be in love or wealth, but wealthy is not true abundance without love and joy.
Even December “The time of giving” finds its roots in love. When we give and receive we are in the flow of life and the more we give the more we receive, but ultimately it is all founded on love.
It just so happens that this particular month is challenging to some people because they are focused on what they don’t have thinking it must be romantic love, but I digress to my previous statement about self love and self care first. How many times have you allowed yourself to be manipulated or had a broken heart. Where did that come from? Was it really some externally force and if that person had just really loved me the way they said they would .. blah blah blah.. giving the other person total power over you makes you powerless – love yourself more than that – do not give your power away. Stand in your greatness, know that you have control over what you feel and what meaning you make out of every situation in your life.
Come on! You are better and more divine than that.. Feel your emotion, allow yourself to grieve, but what brought you into that relationship in the first place? If you were totally honest with yourself were you totally loving you? If you were, then you would not have allowed yourself to be manipulated. When you stepped into this relationship where you settling? When you stepped into that relationship did you claim to the universe this is good enough? Then take a long hard look at what part you played in creating the drama that played out.
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3 Valentine’s Day tips
Love yourself first
Other people cannot “MAKE” you feel good or bad – You are a powerful being, claim it
Envision the relationship that you desire – see it, know it, feel it
Watch for the coming posts this week covering this topic.
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Dr Cynthia Glickman